I’m a believer that we can choose what we want to make a problem, and often people choose problems over creating space for differences, where that space could have led to real change. Political leanings are complex (as you’ve written about), and within my extended family I’ve just decided it’s not a factor I am basing my relationships on. I don’t hold that filter in front of the person. I agree though if someone is abusive this comment doesn’t apply!
Solid wisdom here, Katharine -- thank you!
I’m a believer that we can choose what we want to make a problem, and often people choose problems over creating space for differences, where that space could have led to real change. Political leanings are complex (as you’ve written about), and within my extended family I’ve just decided it’s not a factor I am basing my relationships on. I don’t hold that filter in front of the person. I agree though if someone is abusive this comment doesn’t apply!
Love the way you phrase that, people choosing problems over creating space for differences.