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Hannah Ling's avatar

This is something I’ve been discussing with my boyfriend. I come from a conservative evangelical background and he does not. As I continue to think through my own deconstruction I’m hitting different road blocks of fear of the secular world. It’s been drilled not only into my psyche but it seems that every fiber of my being vibrates with “be careful, Satan is lurking behind every corner.” I love how my bf provides a new perspective for me, and at the same time, as Im figuring out how to move forward and evolve as a person, it’s hard to know what beneficial things from Christianity I actually want to keep vs what things Im holding onto simply from the panic of being demonically influenced. I feel angry for being kept so shut off from the rest of the world. Angry for not truly being able to make an informed decision about what I believe, yet thankful I have the opportunity to do it now despite how hard and terrifying it feels. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on stuff like this. It helps me not feel so alone or bad for being open to other perspectives.

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The conclusion I've come to more and more is once we remove "the afterlife" from Christianity it's a pretty mediocre operating system for life. And I'm referring to the institutionalized version of course. I think the teachings of Jesus himself, especially those focused on creating a society framed upon love and harmony, are inspiring, but incomplete. In the not so distant future we'll begin to see philosophical systems that take the best of all the traditions and blend them together. How exciting and beneficial that will be!!

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