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Sarah Stankorb's avatar

This is so well put--for something so awful to feel. My mom recently died and posting about it online felt like a step in the process, and I soon realized I'd shared the logical culmination of all my posts about her declining health, a shock to no one but me. You just articulated why this isn't enough, but I did want to say how sad I am for you, both at the loss and that our bizarro screen world made this harder.

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Good Humor by CK Steefel's avatar

A full year in the Jewish tradition is a milestone. It's called a Yahrzeit. It marks the completion of the official mourning. We say the kaddish and "move on." While it's not so easy to just move on, I've noticed that the one year anniversary has made a difference, psychologically, in people's lives.

Beautiful piece. Thanks for sharing. I'm so sorry for this tragic loss.

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